If there is problem welcome it. Because problems give you dual advice: one you can know how to solve that and other how to avoid it in future.

रेत पर लिखकर ,अपनी ख्व्हहिशें 

खुद ही मिटाते रहे,

तुम्हे पता भी न चला,

की हम,अपने अनमोल आँसू ,

तुमपर जीवन भर लुटाते रहे|

Test a servant while in the discharge of his duty, a relative indifficulty, a friend in adversity, and a wife in misfortune.

“Be yourself; everyone else is already taken.”
― Oscar Wilde